Oooh boy, ok this is sort of embarrassing. I have a thing for sub Tony and Steve taking care of him. Do you have any like that? Sort of needy bottom Tony and caring steve? I recently read From You I Cannot Hide by SailorChibi and really enjoyed it.

I can think of a few suggestions for this (also try the Subspace recs), but I’ll call this Gentle/Caring Dom Steve.  Here you go:

TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOUR AUTHORS WITH COMMENTS AND KUDOS!

A Brighter Word Than Bright by @blossomsinthemist:
“S’okay, Steve,” Tony finally remembered how to slur out.  “Just … just feels like a lot.”

“It is a lot, sweetheart,” Steve murmured, his fingers delving
even deeper into Tony.  “You’re stretching open really nice for it,
though. You’re real good and relaxed, aren’t you?”
Written for Day Twenty-Four of Kinktober: Fisting.

I’ll Make You Feel Pure by @blossomsinthemist:
Steve and Tony have been trying out some more unusual sexual activities
in the dom/sub and BDSM realms, but they’re still, ahem, working out the
kinks.  They try again, with Tony subbing, and, well, it almost goes according to plan.  With only a few hiccups.  Sub Tony, gentle dom Steve, lots of aftercare.

For Sentimental Reasons by @blossomsinthemist:
Ultimates Steve and Tony have hard lives–and they end up relaxing
together.  It turns into a habit.  Non-sexual submission with service
top Steve and sub Tony.

Let Me Take You Higher by @blossomsinthemist:
“Good,” Steve said, and squeezed him gently around the waist.  “I guess we should see about having an actual shower, huh?”

“It might be a good idea,” Tony allowed, smiling a little.  It felt loose and warm and wide on his face.
Written for Day Twenty-One of Kinktober: Shower/Bath.

To See Its Truth by @blossomsinthemist:
“There’ll be time for me after this,” Tony told him.  The heavy
ache, the drag and fullness and wet, was making his cock hard again, so
that he could feel it bobbing under his shirt.  The fabric felt sweaty,
sticking to his back and chest and nipples.  “I’ll probably only come
once, after all.  Just let me make you feel good, champ.”
Written for Day Fourteen of Kinktober: Role Reversal.

Held by romanoff:
It’s not the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to Tony, but it’s up there.

Rise or Fall (Give His All) by @neverthelessthesun: Tony is self-conscious about his height. Steve tries to make him see it’s not all that bad.Smut and fluff inspired by a conversation in my Stony discord, so of course it’s full of all the best tropes.

I dream, only of you, beloved by Missy_dee811:
The happiest, sappiest blow job.

Trust Exercises by Missy_dee811: (no summary)

I Saw You Smiling At Me by @chibisquirt:
Steve and Tony have (finally) gotten together!  Now it’s time to explore some of their kinks…

Wipe Your Tears Away (wip) by SailorChibi:
Steve likes taking care of his team. It gives him focus in a confusing
new world. But one member of the team never learned that it’s okay to be
taken care of. Until the night Tony gets a concussion, and his deepest
secret – that, when he’s absolutely sure he’s alone, he likes to role
play being a toddler  – comes out into the open and affords Steve the
perfect opportunity.

From You I Cannot Hide by SailorChibi:
Being a sub isn’t the worst thing in the world. Being a sub who doesn’t
like pain, well. That’s just weird. A sub’s sole responsibility in life
is to be anything and everything a dom wants, an open canvas for a dom’s
brush, malleable and sweet. Obie taught him that, and that fear
ultimately tears him and Pepper apart. So Tony hides his dirty secret
and doesn’t sub for anyone now. But that doesn’t stop him from wanting.

Steve Rogers is Kinkier Than You Think by Heartithateyou: Tony likes Steve. Steve likes Tony. Which seems perfect
until Tony starts thinking of every single way he could fuck things up
between them.So he tells him a little white lie about why they can’t date.But how was he supposed to know Steve would take it so seriously.